aposhitermaidel:
I think it is pretty clear that no one can actually demand to be supported by anybody else.
I think very few people would say that in general it should be OK for a couple to go to Florida on their parents blood.
In fact after you said:
IY”H when my children decide to get married – if they decide that they want to live a Kollel life – while I would love to help them out – and will if I can – they know that if they are old enough to get married – then they are old enough to figure out how to support their families.
I’m not sure anybody is disagreeing with you at all.
The only point that I’m really trying to make is that from the parents’perspective it is important that they do what ever is in their means to help their children learn even a little bit longer. Key word: within their means.