OOmis – “Then they become very disillusioned and resent their men for not providing for them (as the Kesuvah mandates them to).”
This does sometimes make for bad marriages or divorce in the yeshiva world. A person should be mature enough to know what it means when they say “I want a learning guy”. Also, just because your hubby isn’t doing the right thing acc. to you because he isn’t supporting the family, who gave you the right not to work?
Two wrongs don’t make a right. In America right now most couples are forced to work to provide for their families, why are Frum Jews different?