SJSinNY:
Thanks for responding. I agree with you that sometimes marriages stop functioning, requiring further action. However, if a party is not blameless, they’ll be much better off if they fix themselves prior to divorcing, even if they feel it’ll never suffice, due to the other spouses.. Divorcing prior to doing everything a person can is ill-advised and sounds irrisponsible.
If they do opt for the divorce, it may very well be that irrisponsibily that propels the next one, R”L. Oh, and some of that “abuse-phobia” is so part of society, that it may very well be the story of the first time. And they fix their load prior to divorcing, who says they’ll ever need luggage, maybe they won’t end indivorce!