chaplaintzvi:
Do you think this is productive for you?
Do you think this is a good thing to teach your daughter?
Why don’t you just stop being so bitter, accept that other people can have valid opinions, even about things that will make them seem frummer than you, and enjoy that your daughter is graduating.
Your daughter will only graduate from high school once. It is a special time for her. You shouldn’t ruin it by getting mad at the school.
Tell her you are proud. Tell her how much you’d love to be there. Make a party for her. Maybe go out for pizza. Buy her a certificate to have her nails done or something.
Really. This is not a conspiracy. This is a very valid opinion. Look over my past posts; I am not a tznius radical. Or any sort of radical.
You want proof beyond a shadow of doubt? Who is being unreasonable here?
Maybe the principal is doing it to be frummer than thou. Who knows. Maybe you are protesting it to be righter than thou.
But so what. This is the standard they adopted, it isn’t crazy, live with it.
gefen: Don’t tell me about chutzpa. When you know a tenth of the torah I know, we can discuss chutzpa. I’m not your daughter.