Zahavas Dad;
First you attempted to state there were specific legal reasons that same gender marriage was pursued.
That was shown to be false.
Then you stated that seperate but equal is unequal.
That is irrelevent because the point here is that throughout history it has been a recognized fact that the relationship beteen two commited persons of the opposite gender is inherently different then two people of the same gender.
This happens to be an inarguable fact.
Unless you will somehow show that a man and woman are really the same then you must concede that a relationship between a man and woman in order to last must be different then the relationship between two members of the same gender.
If you do not understand how this is true I suggest that you consult with a qualified chosson teacher or kallah teacher as to the very real differences between men and women.
Now you decided to inform people that you realized certain thing because you had a friend who unfortunatley had this machla.
I hope your friend realizes it is a machla and attempts to get help.
However I fail to understand how your personal “realizations” have an effect on right and wrong.
The Torah says that recognizing same gender marriages is wrong.
Period.
The vast majority of the world recognizes that it is wrong.
And logically it is quite easy to understand what the “normal” order is supposed to be.
What does what you wrote have anything to do with it?