“wish I knew what to say to make it better for you.“
That in a nutshell is how most people feel when trying to comfort someone who’s had a loss and/or is going thru tough times.
When we lost a relative we saw that even just hearing an “I’m sorry” – sincerely said – helps.
May those who are grieving for relatives or friends have a nechama, and those undergoing difficulty have a yeshua.