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June 22, 2011 5:53 pm at 5:53 pm #791169
Ofcourse
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DY, You are simply ignoring the fact that there are halachos about this.

Thanks DY!

jaw22, What about the fact that Rabbonim say that non payment of Shadchanus is NOT good for the couple’s mazel? Wouldnt that make the parents selfish?

The mother’s behavior is very unique: first saying-I mailed an invitation wth a check, then- it must have gotten lost in the mail, to the present – the kids will take care of it.

Also, it’s the money too, many hours are involved, and there just arent enough Shadchanim who are willing to do it for free. Are you willing to start? If you were a Shadchan, it would take a very unique Tzadik gamur not to feel like a fool.