Reply To: Many attempts were made for the Kallah. How would you proceed?

be good, thanks a mil for your sensitivity in this matter! I agree with everything you said!

Update: a middle person spoke to them and this middle person got back to me and said it was “handled”. That was over a week ago, and I havent heard about it yet.

I cant approach Chasan’s parents, theyre of out of towny, Modern Orthodox, Baal Teshuva background. They’re prob not familiar with Shadchanus, and I dont want to alienate them.

ador, I dont know who you are…. and being that I suspect youre female, I might as well tell you that I have a serious shortage of guys, both normal and not and degrees in between. ; (