we played a game in school that someone reads a scenario and you -off the top of ur head- have to think of a way to be dan lekaf zechut them.. ppl thought of really crazy ones, but we really should in real life because ANYTHING couldve happened, its really not pretend, and whenever i think of this game it always helps me.
Also that story about when his employer could not pay him or sm, and he kept being dan lkaf zechut, and all the things that he thought really did happen ,that helps me too, anyone can give me more details?