I dress to kill for weddings, used to do the same when dating too.
Funny idk why i never got strange women chasing after me.
In line at shop-rite or wal-mart is another story, (and “strange” is an understatment)
However, my Rabbeim never chided me for dressing sharp as being a tempting Nisayon for Maidlach.
Unfortunately we live in a time where girls & I mean girls, not married women must use bait to catch the fish. As long as they are doing this at weddings and on dates, for the purpose of snagging
the intended mate, not going to bars & Clubs R”L,
I & you should have no problem with it.
Is it not enough that so many young girls at the shidduch age of 21-30’s are still single racking their brains to figure out what they must do (believe me they daven & say Tehillim, Perek Shira & Shir Hashirim etc..) now you want to tell them not to dress up for weddings and dates?!!.
I’m a guy, when I dated I noticed the girls that cared to look nice, be clean, dress well,(as I noticed their fine middos genuine character and sweet personality.) However, I also unfortunately
noticed the girls that came dressed like they hijacked jc penny
or the salvation army. greasy hair, worn out battered shoes.
Don’t think many of us don’t notice. Now If I get some posts like, “guys who care about looks are shallow”, etc.. either you’re hypocrites & liars, or from another planet way out.
Girls, pls do your Hishtadlus after davening etc..
look presentable, Be Tzanua & HB”H will send the right guy speedily. Also, first impressions are hard to overcome, so come dressed nicely on a first date. Hatzlacha!