many yeshivish guys consider going out for coffee as a reasonable first date. If she thought that’s where you were likely taking her, she was totally appropriately dressed. I think the biggest problem in shidduch dating is a serious lack of communication. If you expected her to be more fahpitzed, you should have conveyed that to her in some manner. You really have not told us what she was wearing, so what you think of as very casual, might be the norm for most frum girls.
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