i dnt know abt that collegegrad. wen ur single, ur able to work on urself hashkaficaly, asses urself, and grow a lot more as a person more than u wud if u were married. for me, i was even able to go to israel and do seminary again and it was the best expereince ever and i gained so much from it. so yes, i may have a savings account too, but i’m also happy bec i’ve learnt and grown so much hashkafically, have made so many new amazing friends, and learnt alot about myself. heck i was immature with the first few guys i shouldn’t have even been dating. but i agree it is a bracha to amrry first few guys, but if i t doesn’t happen there’s obviosuly a reason
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