BPT, the mods took out ONE sentence from my post, why, I’m not sure except that it said nothing about you.
You said first, “I do not blame victims. And I’m also opposed to the use of the phrase ‘she asked for it’.”
Then you followed that with the conclusion, “In the workplace, trouble knocks on the doors that have someone home.”
These two statements contradict each other.
Mir ken learnen a bissel fun der Wall Street Journal. Regularly there are articles about outrageous workplace environment cases like the one involving the New York Knicks.
The reason these cases are successful is because in each case, the victim did nothing to provoke the sexual harassment.
I feel bad for OP. I don’t know why anyone wouldn’t.