I think it is wonderful that you took the first step, and spoke to a Rav to help you figure out how to proceed. He should be the shliach from hashem to help resolve this situation.
Whatever advice and course of action he dispenses and prescribes, I don’t think the CR needs twice daily updates. This is not a reality TV show. Of course, if the Rav you are speaking with disagrees, listen to what he says, not me.