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CB:

1. Becasue thats’ how they want it.

2. The signers themselves will be needed to add other signers. Same with the outside arbitrators.

CB:

How about picking up a yated and read what somone who actually had the intelligence to do their own research wrote and how their perception changed.

Here’s a qoute

I do not know whether nasi will succeed or not. But I do believe that I now know that nasi is a serious project, undertaken by serious and honorable people working lesheim Shamayim.”

btw he signed his real name.

It’s kind’ve hillarios that people scream bloddy murder scam scam scam… and then they realize oops i looks stupid… There’s a well known accounting firm who is going to ensure that money isn’t stolen.

Okay so now lets dream up a new scam. When a shidduch is made for a girl on the list, NASI will/may (for some reason) decide that the person the girl says is the shadchan isn’t really the shadchan-and they will release the money to the registered shadchan against the wishes of the girl…..

maybe because they want the $500 or perhaps they have a more diabolical plan, they are actually in cahoots with the shadchanim and are getting kickbacks.

(btw there’s a system in place (in the contract) for estabishing early on who the shadchan is right at the begining of the dating process so people can’t show up and claim dibs. At the same time, Halacha recognizes that there are different stages to the shidduch process and anyone who play a vital role in any of these stages is halachically elgible for part of the shadchanus. These halachic guidelines will be used in determining how to disperse the shadchanus)

however this is not the forum for discussing the finer details of the program.

Anyone who is interersted contacts the program and receives answers to all their questions.

Here’s a thought, ask away! because all these questions and concerns make their way to the people running the program and it makes it all that much better. The program probably hasn’t dreamt up every possible way to possible to abuse the program so please keep the ideas coming, and they will simply incoporate anything they haven’t thought of…….

but when you are finished here a idea

use all your free time and creativity to actually come up with some good ideas for solving the tragedy!!!