Here is that letter from 70 R”Y. dated Aseres Yimei Teshiva 5770 (over two years ago)
(that was when it was published, it took well over many months to put together)
It is well known that our community finds itself in a dire situation in which hundreds of our daughters are getting older without having found their zivug. With the help of ?’ ??’ it has been recently revealed that the primary cause of this situation is that boys frequently prefer girls who are a few years younger than they. Since every year our population grows, ??? ??? ???, the result is that there are always more girls in need of a shidduch than there are available boys, leaving many girls without a match.
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One who chooses a shidduch taking into account to help her and her family will be blessed with sons and sons-in-law who are Talmidei Chachamim. ???? ???? ???????