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January 19, 2012 7:49 am at 7:49 am #848153
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DY,

Is it more humiliating to put out money and get attention, or to not put out money but not get attention?

By the time a girl is considered an “older girl”, she’s working on Bitachon mode, and yes, it’s more humiliating to put out money and get this kind of attention. There’s a multitude of levels of Hishtadlus and this paying/begging for attention involves lowering themselves to the point of humiliation and depression.