oomis1105,
It is amazing to me that anyone has a problem understanding how the older girls must negatively feel as a result of this initiative.
Im with you BIGTIME oomis!!!! Lots more girls crying into their pillows and ch”v considering going OTD, lo aleinu. And you can almost not blame them. Davening, davening, and davening, trying to get into the best schools for degrees, looking their best, going everywhere to meet the right connections for Shidduchim, studying their hardest, then working their hardest, and now emptying their bankbooks for prepayment too? I wish I had the answer, but NASI goofed bigtime with this attempt, syphoning whatever self respect and money the girls have left.
Lo’mich Oop (as they say in French)!