DY,
Are you agreeing or disagreeing with my opinion that redting a shidduch with an older girl is more difficult than with a younger one?
Definitely. No one is denying it. BUT further victimizing the victims, is NOT the Torah way. Shadchan incentives should have come about from other means than the pockets of the already badly pained victims, and not be that steep! This is a bone in the throat of every sensitive person. Hard to tolerate.