Reply To: If you've read "NASI Project Responds", have you changed your mind?

Az, you are hopeless. You and I both know Gedolim would NEVER do what I suggested, because it would be received badly. Shadchanim who are eageerly becoming part of your project, are showing EXACTLY why they are doing it. Mit monik mir ken koifen honik. it is ALL about the money and nothing else. Otherwise, these same lovely shadhchanim WOULD do what someone else pointed out, and just charge a little more than usual for the zechus of setting up the hard- to-finds. Gold is glittering in their eyes, now, because of NASI. And it IS insulting to the older girls, no matter what you think. Hard enough for them to deal with the fact that they are watching life passing them by, often through NO fault of their own. Now they have to be fined for it as well.