mdd, I’ll pardon your ignorance. It’s not kabbalah. It’s a famous vort of the Netziv, and it’s also referenced in the Yerushalmi maseches Sanhedrin. And as far as Toichecha goes, the mekor is in vayikro. Lo tisneh es achicho bilvovcho. Hocheach tochiach es amisecho, velo sisah olov cheit.
“Do not hate your brother in your heart, you shall surely rebuke your neighbor, and incur no sin because of this person.” two things in that posuk which take YOU out of the parsha of giving toichecha. First, there is the fact that to validly give toichecha, you can’t hate your brother in your heart. Judging only from what you have written in this forum, you don’t display that qualification. Secondly, the posuk says “es amisecho”. You want to give toichecho to people who are not your friends or neighbors, who you see as out to destroy your way of life, who in your view are annihilators of Torah. In what twisted world do you think you can consider those people “amisecho”?
Really, MDD, basic stuff.