Naisberg,
You said,
“Additionally, she is getting divorced not because of her false claims of abuse that she publicly and falsely advanced in order to win sympathy (does anyone have even a shred of evidence of that, other than this evil woman’s claims?), but rather because she engaged in adultery, immorality, public immodesty, and violating every tenet of our faith.”
I have no idea if her claims of abuse are true or not and have no reason to believe either way.
Why she wants a divorce is irrelevant.
I don’t care if it’s simply because she decided she and her husband have “irreconcilable differences” and therefore wants out.
What is sickening is using a Get to force someone to Arbitrate custody in a B”D, (especially when the state of the B”D system is what everyone knows it is).
What is sickening is telling a mother she must remain frum in order to have any custody of her children.
What is sickening is not clearly explaining that signing a Shtar berurin gives the B”D the legal authority to do whatever they want with your children.
There are so many problems here that anyone with a moral compass should see instinctively that I am not even sure how to argue it. (If someone would ask me what is morally wrong with threatening to harm somebody’s children if they do not listen to you, I would say the same thing- it’s just WRONG!)
Gosh-Were did our community lose the sense of morality that makes us human??