Health you said,
“Well if she truly is in violation, then there is a reason why she should be punished. Do you think this doesn’t happen in secular courts?”
You missed the point!!! If the women did not want to Arbitrate with the B”D what they think she should do is irrelevant! If a random arbitrator “Paskened” that you have to give your spouse custody of your children without you submitting a legal document authorizing them to arbitrate, do you think it would be binding?!
You said,
“This might come as a shock to you, but most secular courts in this country, except for of course -NY & NJ courts, will enforce a religious agreement clause.”
The only reason Secular courts will enforce a B”D ruling is because the parties in the dispute signed a “Shtar Berurin” (which is a legal document called “an agreement to submit to binding arbitration”)
Of course the B”D leaves out the fact the the women these cases are FORCED to sign the document.
You said,
“Stop being such an antisemitie because of your bad childhood”
Were did that come from?