ok Health, i saw it.
Even though besalel is right, and we’ve no clue what we’re talking about, I would point out the following:
1)Many other sources don’t seem to say this, one page earlier the Ta’amei HaMinhagim brings from R’ Noson Adler a pshat explaining the circumstances when a man comes back as a gilgul as a women, so its def. not so simple.
2)You’re point was, I believe, that she only “gets one chance”. If you read carefully, he says that a women’s din is only in the next world, meaning that there’s simply a different system, and gilgul happens not to be an option. That does not mean she’s done for.
My original point was that every Jew has a place in Klal Yisrael, and will never be lost – “bal yidach mimeni nidach”. [Kares etc. notwithstanding]. Gilgul was just an example, and the one used by the Chofetz Chaim I quoted.