000646 -“Health, To arbitrate something like custody Children it is very reasonable to only wish to do so in a system that has some sort of oversight and recourse if someone believes they are the victim of judicial misconduct. Not so with the writing of a get.”
It might be reasonable to want this, but it’s not upto the individual’s choice. It’s upto the BD to decide if they will allow such a route.
“As far as forcing a women to arbitrate in a B”D if the only way she can receive a get is by arbitrating everything in a B”D if that is what the B”D wants – and they just about always do the women is in effect forced to arbitrate everything in B”D wether she wishes to or not”
Stop using the word force. If she Wants a Get -notice the word Want, then they have the right to give the Get acc. to their terms. If she has no interest in a Get -she definitely can go to secular court for any custody, financial issues that occur during a divorce. She isn’t forced to do anything!
Here is a sentence using the word “force”:
You can’t force the BD to issue a Get on her terms only. They have the right to determine the terms in which she can get a “GET”!