Health,
You said,
“It might be reasonable to want this, but it’s not upto the individual’s choice. It’s upto the BD to decide if they will allow such a route.”
Of course it’s up too the individual were they should Arbitrate Custody and Assets! Why should it be up too the B”D if she didn’t ask them?
You said,
“Here is a sentence using the word “force”:
You can’t force the BD to issue a Get on her terms only. They have the right to determine the terms in which she can get a “GET”! “
She is coming to the B”D to pay for a service they offer-namely supervising the writing of a Get. Using the fact that she happens to need this service is not an excuse for her to be forced to buy more services from the B”D namely the Arbitration of custody and Assets, in order to receive the necessary (for her) service of receiving a Get.