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I believe that Facilitating a Get and Binding custody and asset arbitration are separate services, you do not. I won’t convince you and you will not convince me.
That being said, I am truly sorry for insinuating that you didn’t go through a system that you apparently did go through, I should not have made assumptions about you. That was arrogant of me, and I apologize.
I know what I know from my and my friends personal experiences with Batei Din. Maybe I am unlucky and it just happens that I only get to see the “problem” Batei din or maybe you are lucky and got to deal with a good one.
I do however feel very strongly that using the threat of not Facilitating a Get unless someone submits to Binding custody and asset arbitration in a system with no oversight or recourse for those who are wronged, is very very immoral and a disgrace.
Let’s just agree to disagree. I do believe it or not really hate offending people’s sensibilities.
As an aside (and feel free to tell me it is non of my business) was there Children involved in your situation?