happiest: I just read your last post “Just wanted to say one thing. Not all people who have been physically abused won’t make a good wife.” During one of our shidduch discussions, i asked my husband what the general opinion was of the boys in his yeshiva about dating a girls who was ‘physically harmed’. His answer was as follows:
A girl who was abused is not considered ‘damaged goods’ (i apologize for the term. this is how i was told it) and most boys wont hold back for that reason. They may be sometimes concerned about how the inscident(s) affected her but otherwise, its not her fault.
Mods: if you find this post to be inappropriate, please edit it. but i do think this may be helpful information to some.