Having just gone through a divorce, I’m positioned to know the implications of either perspective. I agree with Tomche that the prenup he describes is hugely problematic. Not something I would have signed. On the other hand, When I got married I signed a prenup that simply committed me (and her) not to use the get as leverage in case the marriage broke down. I had no problem signing it, and in fact was prepared to do it even in advance of the civil side of things. The thought of using it as leverage was simply not something I could conceive of doing.
