There are girls with checklists and there are girls without.but if a girl met someone who she liked and everything was going well i x think she would think i must hav everything on my checklist.i know of someone who did not want to marry a guy with a beard but guess what? she ended up marrying a guy with a beard. so thats an external thing and not part of his personality ,but i think unless its something really major, she would feel like she x need everything on her list .There are some ppl with their lists that get everything and are happy but there are alot of ppl who have to give in to some things and not get theyre perfect shidduch. Ultimatly hashem knows who our bashert is and what type of person is good for us. hopefully when someones bashert comes along they x turn them down bec theyr not evrything on theyre checklist especially if theyre checklist consists of petty things like someone tall,rich….. that they think is good for them.i never heard of seminaries telling girls that!
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