why can’t we just say:
Girls, try your absolute best to look healthy and attractive, including doing what is necessary to lose unhealthy and excessive weight. Guys, do your absolute best to look beyond the physical in its purest sense, and get to see and know the beauty that lies within–you just may be pleasantly surprised at what you find.
disclaimer: this is assuming both the girls and the guys are being reasonable and realistic in their perception of beauty/attraction, and there is an understanding of human tevah, especially in reference to males.
and then can we PLEASE stop discussing women like this. especially when they are so degradingly called “fat girls”. uuuggghh.