Reply To: shidduchim and weight…..

i was what you call a size minus two, it was part of my genes to be extremely thin. when it came to shidduchim ppl jumped to conclusions as to why as am thin…anorexic etc. I dont understand, if this is what boys are looking for, or more like theyre parents are looking for, when you finaly found this “model figure” you conclude that she is anorexic. we are not going to mention this is real lashon hara, to undermine a girls chances in shidduchim by concluding that she must be anorexic if she is so thin. what has this world come to???