now, changing a thread and philosophizing and telling everyone what kind of figure you prefer may be interesting, but in this thread it’s hurtful. The girl is crying because she’s terrified no one will ever want to marry her because her body is simply not skinny. She is a wonderful girl, has great middos, but she is scared.
Sorry Bina, it really is a boy’s market. As long at that stands, the girls will have to conform with what boys want.
To quote:
Some (very few) boys think:
Most will judge by size. And that is where we fail. Deal with what is, not with what you want things to be.