Reply To: shidduchim and weight…..

“Maybe I’m just naive or wtvr but how does one know if they’re not attractive? Meaning most people aren’t models but how do you know that your looks would be an issue?”

i dont know how i’m gonna sound by saying this, but i’m gonna say it anyway. i honestly dont think my looks WOULD be an issue. i usually look put together with my hair and makeup done. i make an effort to look good. the problem is that i’m not even given a CHANCE, because im not ultra skinny. and i’m NOT obese! (this is AFTER i lost about 25 lbs from when the origional post was posted…)