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I am so happy that you got married and came to realize it all had nothing to do with your weight! I am a boy and I am 21 I totally understand the struggle you had faced because of your weight my sister was a fourteen…12…10…8..6 and when she got married happened to have beeen when she was a 6 but that had nothing in the world to do with it and I am skinny and I am so happy that I was able to see my sisters struggle (not that I am happy she struggled God forbid I would have rathered her not struggle with her weight but bottom line she did…So I am happy that I saw her struggle so that I can realize how important it is to look at a girl during dating for who she is on the inside not the outside bc once a person is married they will only come to realize more and more how important it is that their wife is a good person and how it only matters that she has good middot and a happy positive attitude… thank you for starting this thread bc it is so important and I wish u many years of happiness and haslacha i your marriage.