Couldn’t agree more with BPT. Yes for boys it is expensive and annoying, not easy to keep going out.
Yes it is not geshmak for a boy who is learning to keep missing seder and face their chavrusa again and again after a date falling through because of looks or other reasons..
A boy ends up being burnt out faster than a girl though. A boy has his learning, and his yeshiva life is basically his life. A girl on the other hand has a social, work, maybe college life.