Sorry my post went up twice…
I am a very visual person. It’s a shocker to picture one thing and see quiet another.
Call me shallow or whatver but If the guy is bad looking and its the first time i saw him, all I will see the entire date is his face. It WILL bother me the entire time.
If it’s something I got used to already, because I studied it, then it wouldnt bother me half as much.
Cshapiro–No never, i’m a hermit