Reply To: A third of Litvish families I know, have one or more single daughters 25 and up

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June 24, 2011 9:23 pm at 9:23 pm #908942
missfrizzle
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Where do we learn that a bas kol comes down 40 days before a child is born and says who the shidduch is? But if that is true, than anyone who says there are not enough men/women is basically calling Hashem a liar. I know a lot of single girls who are over the age of 25 who are going on dates left and right. So the statement of not enough is false. Why they say no to the guy is a different story, and good luck to them. But I don’t for one second doubt that Hashem has it all prepared for us, not only in terms of shidduchim but EVERYTHING! Hishtadlus is of course important, but if you think that what you do makes a difference, you are crazy! Its All Hashem, JUST DAVEN! That is really all we can do. And daven for each other. Don’t ever lose faith, The One Above is watching over all of us, and He will take care of us. Baruch Hashem every day!