rebbi gershon
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s2021
are you sure thats what you want. so you wont listen if a shadchan calls?
Actually, I can still meet him and have a shadchan involved can’t I?
If theres no shadchan at all thats not shidduch dating..
I just want to cheat the system a lil..
Have the naturall attraction and feelings develope (with the safetey of a shadchan when needed) but without all the deception and garbage that comes from hearing about him from the shadchan’s friend’s niece’s aunt’s sister’s cousin’s neigbor’s roomate’s cupcake……