It think this is very important to mention right away especially with the great challenges that are at work.so now the question is how do you say it.you should work on it with someone wheter its your rov good friend. I would tell you a story my Rov told me that he was sitting on the plane and some people are more stringent than others in regards to sitting next to women.and maybe the crew didnt look at it in such a good way so my rov when over to the crew and explained it in very nice way that we have such a thing as boundaries and that keeps us good even while the world is very low and its not showing disrespect to women he said something like this and they really appreciated that someone explained it to them. my humble opinion if you explain it the right way like for example,I am really looking forward working with you and working as a team and putting in my greatest effort etc.focusing on the boss,job.and than say with an introduction the beatiful thing about having boundaries which even some goyim praise us for that like a story about a professor from kansas written in a mishpacha magazine more than a year ago,so hatzlacha on the new job.and be able to continue being on your level in yidishkeit while having a great job.
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