No that is not my solution.
My solution would be to level the playing field.
Not every guy in yeshiva past age 20 belongs there.
Have them go get some “real world” experience so they could bring something to the table (I.E. have some money saved so they could sit and learn for a year after marriage, or have a real degree that they can use for a decent paying job)
That way not every lazy guy with a decent reputation is holding out for the same 4 girls on the market.
Plus maybe leaving the yeshiva would force them to grow up a bit and realize that life ain’t easy and it ain’t cheap.
My other solution is a bit to radical but sufice it to say, I believe that a female should maybe have some controll/input over her own future.
@Queenbee; Thanks! I’m glad someone gets it!