@Health I gather from your response that you have never been on facebook. There is a severe lack of understanding on your part of how facebook’s system works. In addition there is no fear as there is with the rest of the internet of seeing inappropriate pictures or going on inappropriate sites as you have the ability to block ads and to cherrypick your friends. DY quotes an isolated case which again I see no problem with as you are perfectly capable of denying friend requests. Most people who are on facebook do not have those experiences and I do not find that my friends have masses of single girls as their friends. If you make yourself unsearchable and dont friend members of the opposite gender (which is what i meant by proper gedarim) I would love for you to explain to me what is wrong with it. I can list to you numerous things that are right with it and acts of chesed and support which happened there that would not be possible without social media.
