Reply To: To the Parents of Teens

morahrach-yes i relate to that exactly, one day something majer happens and i dont dare look her in the eye and the next she talks to me normaly,that scares me cause i never know what to expect when,i sorry that those things happend to you:( it sounds really horrible for you when you where younger. recently i did just kind of break under the pressure of everything and i did something im not proud of and to this day i look back and wonder how i did it but i relize i was just in so much pain i couldnt not do it. Yes i know that it will afect me in the future, i just hope in the positve way then negative,my mother has said things to me about moving back here when im married and i look at her and i say i dont think so im looking for something else,witch in honesty i am but a litle bit also is i dont want my children being exposed to anything bad chas veshalom,

yes of course you may, its not the best honestly,they fight very often in front of us,at night throught my childhood i would stay awake in bed listening to the arguments and threats to divorce at one point i davend to Hashem that if its for the better they should just divorce already, they do of course have there good times when they enjoy eachothers company and people have told me they like my parents that they are very kind people, but inside our house it seems to change they have diffrent mings and goals and forget how to act

saysme-thanks for saying im doing good,but i dont feel i am i feel i should just be able to deal with and get on,not have to make a deal about it like comeing in the cr, i do understand with rabbanim their views and things,but in a small community like where i live you cant do that like in this situation i dont feel ok going to him, i understand it and accept it but i think in my community it shouldnt be that way alot of girls feel that way here. yes i am adding details i guess,for years i would look at things and see one thing like ok she yells but what ever then look at something esle seperatly…but i never put all together thats why its taken me so long to try to help myself ,i never saw it as such a big deal i guess.