You raise a good point, Aries. A generation ago, there was much less emphasis on “always feeling good, whatever the cost”, so people were somewhat more likley to accept the lot that was theirs.
Contrast that with today’s message; “you can do and be whatever you want”, at the smallest provocation, an unhappy camper is apt to go looking for “fun”
And the tech / communication revoloution only made it easier.
And my all time favorite quote about on-line trouble: “a person’s judgement at 2:00 am is not the same as it would probably be at 2:00pm”
When it comes to these sort of things, its more likley a women can excercise good judgement, than can a man in the same situation.