There are about 16 threads about looks in shidduchim [Just in the titles; i don’t know how many are mentioned in the threads].
I haven’t counted, but there are about 788 threads on qualities to look for, what to look for, what not to look for, what to notice and what not to notice, what is a RED FLAG and what is not, how to see this, how to see that…
More threads: Dating etiquette, what to do on a date, what do you do when he… what do you do when she… what to eat, what to drink how to go home, how to carry on…
Should i stop… should i go for a second date. I like her. I don’t like her. What should i do? I’m not sure…
There are better boys than girls. There are better girls than boys. Older guys… older girls… which is worse… Older guys marrying younger girls… older girls marrying younger guys…
Marrying a gerrer… marrying a ger… marrying a BT… dating a modern guy… coloured shirts… jeans… ashkenzi v sephardi… sephardi vs. ashkenazi….
Funny stories… inspirational stories… worst date ever… proposal stories… best date ever… more stories…
shadchan… no shadchan… heimish/chassidish shadchan… knowing both parties… amateur shadchanim… suggesting your own shidduch
parents control… parents don’t get involved… mothers caring about looks… mothers of the girl… mothers of the boy…
is he going to go into learning… short term… long term… working… what does he want to work as… shonoh rishona…
compromise… make do with the best there is… don’t let yourselves be cheated… don’t sell yourselves cheap… dream date… nobody is the same…
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