Obviously it is up to parents and Rebbeim to help children mature, and if a child gets to a certain age and maturity has not set in on its own they should see to it that that young person gets help to guide them into adulthood. WE also know and believe that Hashem has a zivig picked out for everyone so we should not discourage anyone from getting married, but we should be honest and reasonable when redding shiduchim. Lets not “trick” someone into marrying an inappropriate mate. That will only end in divorce and keep the “right” zivig from ever finding them. Lets do OUR best not to get in Hashem’s way.
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