mosherose – the Torah demands that we live happy lives and create our own chelek in Torah. This means different things for different people. Rabbi Pliskin once said that we are obligated to do as much as we can to make ourselves happy (obviously correct choices). If constant Torah study etc makes you thrive and gives you fulfillment then that is the correct choice for you. However I feel that it is making you judgmental and narrow. Our Gedolei Torah who are as steeped in Torah as is possible to be are not as judgmental and narrow. Each person needs to find for himself what enables him to be a happy and well adjusted person in order to be able to grow.