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August 19, 2024 5:31 pm at 5:31 pm #2306744bael teshuvaParticipant
The Chofetz Chaim says to bring Mashiach we need to love everyone. Pray whoever you do not love should have the most Olom Haba.
Please put this on the website and email everyone and put on social media.August 20, 2024 11:32 am at 11:32 am #2306984HaKatanParticipant“The Chofetz Chaim says to bring Mashiach we need to love everyone.”
He obviously did not say what you imply, because there is a mitzva to hate certain evildoers, as Dovid haMelech says in Tehillim: “Halo misanecha Hashem esna…tachlis sina saneisim…”.
But sinas chinam is certainly wrong.
August 20, 2024 11:35 am at 11:35 am #2307193LemaysehParticipantHuh?
Source?
September 15, 2024 1:34 pm at 1:34 pm #2314970ujmParticipantAt the end of Shmiras HaLashon (Hilchos Rechilus 9:15), the Chofetz Chaim writes that the prohibitions against Lashon Hara and Rechilus do not apply to reshaim and kofrim and that it is, in fact, a mitzvah to mock such persons:
“מצוה לפרסם דעתם הכוזבת לעיני הכל ולגנותם, כדי שלא ילמדו ממעשיהם הרעים.”
“It is a mitzvah to make their false opinions public before all, and shame them so that others do not learn from their evil deeds.”
“החפץ חיים בהלכות לשון הרע כלל ח’ סעיף ה’ – אומר: “אותם האנשים שמכירם שיש בהם אפיקורסות מצווה לגנותם ולבזותם בין בפניהם ובין שלא בפניהם”.
ובהמשך- “אפיקורוס נקרא הכופר בתורה… ואפילו הוא אומר כל התורה כולה מן השמים חוץ מפסוק אחד…”
September 15, 2024 4:40 pm at 4:40 pm #2315046somejewiknowParticipantloving reshayim is another type of “sinas chinam”. we must hate those who hate Hashem.
September 15, 2024 4:40 pm at 4:40 pm #2315053ivoryParticipantYes. All Jews who are keeping torah and mitzvahs must love each other. There us no obligation to love open sinners.
September 15, 2024 11:25 pm at 11:25 pm #2315092GadolhadorahParticipantSeems like some are preoccupied with rationalizing hatred and speaking lashon harah with respect to those they regard as “reshaim and kofrim” than building achdus within klal yisroel. I guess its important to have an enemies list so you know whom not to treat with respect.
September 16, 2024 3:26 pm at 3:26 pm #2315338yichusdikParticipantI see that the concept of Ahavas Yisroel is still having a hard time finding its place here, after all of these years .
Ivory: Where is your source? The forefather of the Moshiach, Dovid Hamelech, transgressed both privately and befarhesiyah. He was called out, and he did teshuva. Were his subjects and those who came after not obliged to love him? We all transgress. Sometimes we do it because we think its right or justified, sometimes we are ashamed of it. But each one of us does it, openly and not. You would have us hate each other and ourselves. That is a miserable existence. I can’t presume like so many do, to know what hashem wants of us. But he didn’t create us for misery.
somejewiknow: How do you know someone hates hashem, unless they actually say “I hate hashem?” The truth is you don’t know. And let’s say they did make that statement. Even then, the Truth is, you still don’t know. You don’t know anything about them, you don’t know anything about their losses, or challenges, or upbringing, You don’t know the balance sheet they may have full of Mitzvos and sacrifice. You don’t know what tzaar might have brought them to that statement – speak to a survivor of the Shoah, and you might begin to get a clue. Actually, you may know nothing at all, except the certainty of your own kedusha. As for loving reshayim; We say in the Hagodoh every single year that the rosho is at his father’s seder table. His father might be justly angered by his son, but he loves him enough to have him at his seder. Who are you to define loving the rosho (who is your brother, or neighbor, or fellow Jew) as sinas chinom? And even in the CC quoted by ujm, he didn’t advise one to hate the kofer or apikorus, rather, in the specific circumstances described, to mock their kefira.
In a time of such danger for the Jewish people, and with such a revealed need for achdus, maybe, just maybe, you might consider letting the Dayon HoEmes be the one to judge Jews, rather than arrogating that responsibility for yourself.
September 16, 2024 3:26 pm at 3:26 pm #2315423Menachem ShmeiParticipantAll Jews who are keeping torah and mitzvahs must love each other. There us no obligation to love open sinners.
Are you sure?
What about the Gemara: ברור לו מתה יפה – because of ואהבת לרעך כמך for someone who is חייב מיתת בית דין, i.e. ignored עדים והתראה!!!
Are you aware that there is much discussion on the matter?
Why are you so eager to ignore the entire שקלל וטריא and rule out loving sinners, especially in our generation when most sinners are אונסים who must be brought close with love (as the Rambam writes regarding תינוקות שנשבו, see also Chazon Ish יו”ד ח”ב טז)?
September 16, 2024 3:26 pm at 3:26 pm #2315428Menachem ShmeiParticipantAt the end of Shmiras HaLashon (Hilchos Rechilus 9:15), the Chofetz Chaim writes that the prohibitions against Lashon Hara and Rechilus do not apply to reshaim and kofrim and that it is, in fact, a mitzvah to mock such persons
UJM,
I would be very careful to research when and with whom these halachos apply.
Eliyahu Hanovi and Yeshayohu Hanovi were punished for speaking disparagingly about Jewish IDOL WORSHIPERS (the real kind) – because “אין הקב”ה רוצה במי שאומר דילטורייא על ישראל”.
(שהש”ר פ”א, ו (א). רש”י ישעי’ ו, ו. ועוד)The Rambam writes that if such great tzaddikim were punished, how much more so a קל מקלי העולם who dares to condemn so many Yidden as פושעים ורשעים וגויים ופסולי עדות וכופרים בה’ אלהי ישראל.
(אגרת השמד פ”ב)I would err on the side of speaking positively about Jews.
September 16, 2024 3:26 pm at 3:26 pm #2315438ujmParticipantDorah: Are you taking objection to they the Chofetz Chaim said, in my above cited quotations?
Perhaps you should write your own Seforim, disputing the Chofetz Chaim.
September 17, 2024 2:15 pm at 2:15 pm #2315772ujmParticipantMenachem: I’m not sure what you’re objecting to. I simply quoted the Chofetz Chaim verbatim. Are you disagreeing with the Chofetz Chaim? If so, is it your own personal disagreement or do you have an opposing death of equal stature of the Chofetz Chaim?
The Chofetz Chaim is telling us we must identify reshoyim and kofrim, in order to treat them as the Chofetz Chaim prescribes in his above quotations.
September 26, 2024 3:37 pm at 3:37 pm #2318994DovidHamelechParticipantEveryone is equal in the eyes of Hashem. Our goodness comes from God just like God is good we are all good in the same way.
September 27, 2024 10:01 am at 10:01 am #2319075Menachem ShmeiParticipantMenachem: I’m not sure what you’re objecting to. I simply quoted the Chofetz Chaim verbatim. Are you disagreeing with the Chofetz Chaim?
I was very clear:
“I would be very careful to research when and with whom these halachos apply.”Because many GREAT tzaddikim were punished in the past for speaking negatively about IDOLATERS.
We must be very careful in the proper way to apply these halachos, and to whom.
September 27, 2024 1:16 pm at 1:16 pm #2319231somejewiknowParticipant@menachem-shmei
one must be equally careful in both directions. remeber, the bais hamikdash was destroyed from sinas chinam, and there is no greater sinas chinam that loving reshayim and showing your baseless hatred of HashemSeptember 27, 2024 1:16 pm at 1:16 pm #2319232somejewiknowParticipant@menachem-shmei
one must be equally careful in both directions. remeber, the bais hamikdash was destroyed from sinas chinam, and there is no greater sinas chinam that loving reshayim and showing your baseless hatred of HashemSeptember 29, 2024 5:17 pm at 5:17 pm #2319980Menachem ShmeiParticipantone must be equally careful in both directions.
I’m not sure this is true. Chessed is an inherently good middah, though it can be used for bad. Achzariyus is an inherently bad middah, though it can be used for good.
It is definitely better to err on the side of chessed.
September 29, 2024 11:56 pm at 11:56 pm #2320018somejewiknowParticipant@menachem-shmei
ahavas rashayim is achzariyus, an inherently bad middah. it is NOT a chessed.September 29, 2024 11:57 pm at 11:57 pm #2320043ujmParticipantMenachem:
“החפץ חיים בהלכות לשון הרע כלל ח’ סעיף ה’ – אומר: “אותם האנשים שמכירם שיש בהם אפיקורסות מצווה לגנותם ולבזותם בין בפניהם ובין שלא בפניהם”.
ובהמשך- “אפיקורוס נקרא הכופר בתורה… ואפילו הוא אומר כל התורה כולה מן השמים חוץ מפסוק אחד…”
The Chofetz Chaim says the above. Idol worshippers are apikorsom. You are bringing stories from Tanach to reach your own conclusion to disagree with the Chofetz Chaim? Or are you being misunderstood? Where in Shulchan Aruch does it say it is ever prohibited to condemn, mock or despise idol worshippers?
In your understanding, when would the above quoted halacha from the Chofetz Chaim apply? And when would it not apply, if ever?
September 30, 2024 10:48 am at 10:48 am #2320146Menachem ShmeiParticipantSomejew,
Question: Why can’t we use iron on the מזבח? We are told it’s because iron is a tool of death. But isn’t it used for the killing of bad people? How can death itself be something bad, sometimes it is a very good a necessary thing?
Another question: Dovid Hamelech was not able to build the Beis Hamikdash because דם לרוב שפחת – Hashem didn’t want His house built by someone whose hands were filled with blood.
But wasn’t it the blood of wicked enemies of the Jews who deserved to be killed? What could negative about this?September 30, 2024 10:48 am at 10:48 am #2320147Menachem ShmeiParticipantThe Chofetz Chaim says the above. Idol worshippers are apikorsom. You are bringing stories from Tanach to reach your own conclusion to disagree with the Chofetz Chaim? Or are you being misunderstood? Where in Shulchan Aruch does it say it is ever prohibited to condemn, mock or despise idol worshippers?
My point was that when speaking about Jews, one is playing with fire. Handle with care.
September 30, 2024 3:11 pm at 3:11 pm #2320314somejewiknowParticipant@menachem-shmei
just keep the clear halachos. you are the one trying to wield the tool of achzuryous in your love of reshayim, the opposite of “ahaves yisroel”it’s crooked hashkafos like what you are pushing, against troas moshe, that destroyed the bais hamikdash and continue to destroy the social fabric of klal yisroel.
it’s people like you who hate neturei karta in the name of “ahavas yisroel”, because you love the kofrim so much you will shecht kosher yidden.
October 1, 2024 11:04 am at 11:04 am #2320415Always_Ask_QuestionsParticipantsome > because you love the kofrim so much you will shecht kosher yidden.
I am not sure what this refers to (and do not want to know), but this might come sometimes because we (and Torah, and Hashem) has different requirements for people at different levels. We ask less from people who were born outside of Torah or even worse inside anti-Torah movements, comparing with people who learned all halochos, but sometimes do not live up to them.
October 1, 2024 11:04 am at 11:04 am #2320418Menachem ShmeiParticipantSomejew, you haven’t answered my question. Is killing intrinsically bad or not?
October 1, 2024 6:13 pm at 6:13 pm #2320784somejewiknowParticipant@menachem-shmei
nothing is intrinsically bad
the only absolute is Hashem who we can only understand as intrinsically Good.October 1, 2024 6:13 pm at 6:13 pm #2320858ujmParticipantMenachem:
Are you accusing the Chofetz Chaim of encouraging Klal Yisroel to play with fire when he tells Klal Yisroel מצווה לגנותם ולבזותם בין בפניהם ובין שלא בפניהם”.
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