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  • #2262913
    HaLeiVi
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    Always_Ask_Questions, the way I understood that Pasuk is that, for most people and for the first decades of their life, the basis of their knowledge of Halacha is from their mother. The father is not home that much, and serves as the figure he looks up to and wants to impress.

    #2262926
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Haleivi, prior to yeridas hadoros and the necessitation of chadarim, Torah was primarily transferred from father to son.

    #2263051

    Haleivi, right, I forgot who said, pointing to bookshelf- all these authors starting learning from their mothers. .. and nowadays if not from mothers, then morahs. This underscores that they need to be learnt ourdays

    #2263302
    sechel83
    Participant

    @ yankel berel so you heard from your close relative something that makes no sence (i dont want to repeat such apikorsos)editedironic but motzei shem rah
    this rabbi wrote up his personal encounter.
    you can choose which one to believe.

    Rabbah declared: “I, for example, am a beinoni.” Said Abbaye to him, “Master, you make it impossible for any creature to live….”
    Abbaye argued thus: “If you are a beinoni, then all those on a lower level than you fall into the category of the wicked, concerning whom our Sages say:9 ‘The wicked, even while alive, are considered dead.’ By calling yourself a beinoni, you thus make it impossible for anyone to live.”

    if the rebbe wasn’t a gadal, who was?

    #2263330
    yankel berel
    Participant

    @sechel

    to really think that Rav Shach would send a talmid to the Rebbi of the habad hasidim – like you obviously claim :
    is similar to deny the existence of the sun in broad daylight.

    Which sadly is the modus operandi of the habad apologists whenever faced with evidence contradicting their propaganda aims .
    .
    Which explains one [of the many reasons] reason why you guys lost and are continuously losing your heskat kashrut .

    #2263335
    ARSo
    Participant

    Thanks sechel for bringing the thread back to its original (and IMHO much more interesting 🙂 ) topic.

    You wrote: “if the rebbe wasn’t a gadal, who was?”

    Um, now that’s a hard one. How about the Vizhniter Rebbe, the Belzer Rebbe, Rav Moshe Sternbuch, Rav Meir Bergman, the Amshinover Rebbe etc etc etc (no particular order in the above)?

    And I have a question. If the Lubavicher rebbe was atzmus melubash beguf, and thus all-powerful, why wasn’t he able to avoid having a stroke, and avoid dying?

    #2263337
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    “if the rebbe wasn’t a gadal, who was?“

    Rav Shach

    #2263351
    DaMoshe
    Participant

    “if the rebbe wasn’t a gadal, who was?“

    Someone who didn’t declare themselves to be Mashiach.

    #2263465
    CS
    Participant

    Gutte voch from my locality.

    Yb
    “Or , Phrased in another way – If you, CS, would be put in a ‘time machine’ , transported to the 1990 – 1994 era , and would be commenting on these pages , would you ‘explain’ those hazal like the shitah of ‘then habad’ or like you do now ?”

    I have no idea. In my experience a) The women weren’t as involved in the combative politics and b) the whole era is a sensitive topic. Therefore I haven’t gotten clear info yet from the Chabad side on this but I’ll keep it in mind. Just to make sure I have you right, you say the reason others didn’t see The Rebbe as a candidate for Moshiach (obviously among the ones who didn’t) had nothing to do with the alive or dead debate? So what was it then? Just so I have you clear.

    Secondly, of course there may be personal bias involved when learning- personally I question anything that doesn’t add up to me as things come up in learning. This is also why it’s so important to have the guidance of a mashpia and Rav so you don’t just go down a self deluded lane.

    #2263466
    CS
    Participant

    *note to mod about my story: I’m not claiming this is an official mesora on how to not teach girls. Rather, this was part of this girls experience along with other things. It may have been the particular teachers coping mechanism to explain why she couldn’t learn further. (She wasn’t litvish in case you were wondering.)

    And to whoever was outraged that Chabad saved the day yet again: bH, we did in that case and many other cases. No reason to be intimidated if you have the same approach of helping any Jew. It’s not a contest.

    When the war started someone posted- were all in the army- depends which brigade.

    #2263467
    CS
    Participant

    Arso

    “So dor shevi’i is only something made up to suit the circumstances. Which is the type of ‘proof’ or argument that we have been disputing all along.”

    I don’t see where you got that. What I meant was that if Nesius would’ve ended with the Frierdiker Rebbe, there would have been no dor shvii as the dor goes by the Rebbe. Since we needed another Rebbe, that equals dor shvii

    #2263468
    CS
    Participant

    Arso

    “And I have a question. If the Lubavicher rebbe was atzmus melubash beguf, and thus all-powerful, why wasn’t he able to avoid having a stroke, and avoid dying?”

    This shows a complete misunderstanding of the sicha and Chassidus in general. For such types of people- don’t read one liners out of sichos meant to denigrate Chabad because it will lead you to at least the issur of choshed biksherim if not much more….

    Like I said it’s not that complicated you just need the time and knowledge of learning. Start with Shaar haYichud BHoEmuna of Tanya…

    #2263469
    CS
    Participant

    One comment on the women’s learning discussion- which I was pleased to read- I know the effects learning Chassidus which includes all other parts of Torah- and especially knowing how to learn on my own, has done for me and my peers. Personally, it has allowed me to find pleasure in Elokus, to set my own learning curriculum based on where my current interests are in Avodas Hashem. And my whole home has been elevated by it. Torah learning is strongly encouraged in our home, and there is no time I’ve ever asked my husband not to go learn. We bH now have a daily Dvar Torah by supper time, and Shabbos is my heavenly learning time aside from family time.

    All my peers who strive to be “Chassidish” (within Lubavitch), guard their homes from any non Jewish influence. There is no TV, non Jewish books (at least for entertainment purposes), and of course would never watch movies under any circumstances.

    Contrast this with a woman who grows up in a very frum home and community, but wasn’t blessed to learn and see the deeper side of Torah, it’s not hard to understand why she may find her pleasure and down time in non Jewish movies, music, books etc even if she’s dressed tznius to the hilt, and the impact this has on her home…

    disclaimer: mamash motzei shem rah

    Someone mentioned that lubavitch Is in the minority of encouraging girls to learn Torah shebaal peh. I find that hard to believe. Please list the many communities, as you put it, who don’t teach their girls Chumash and Rashi ( Rashi is Torah shebaal peh)? I only know of one. Thanks.

    #2263503
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    CS, chabad are the ones who made a contest out of yiddishkeit. Do you ever use the phrase “kiddush Lubavitch”? It refers to things that glorify the name of chabad, not necessarily Hashem. Chabad engage in otherizing the rest of klal yisroel routinely – every opportunity to spread “chasidis” to people who can’t read Hebrew, instead of teaching basic Yiddishkeit, is seized.

    Stories are constantly told of how Lubavitch missionaries or the Lubavitcher rebbe “saved the day,” to the complete exclusion of every other group in klal yisroel. Tell me, as a Lubavitcher, have you ever heard any stories about rav noach Weinberg’s kiruv activities? Have you ever heard of him at all? What about rav eliezer silver rescuing orphans from a christian compound after the Holocaust? Again, did you ever hear of his name? I’m betting not. Because if it isn’t Lubavitch, it isn’t worth mentioning.

    #2263504
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    “Nesius” is a term created יש מאין. The last time there was a Nasi was in the early amoraim.

    #2263516
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    CS, basically none of the chasidishe schools teach more than Chumash with Rashi, with lots of other seforim for mussar. Some chassidishe schools, including satmar, do not teach with Rashi, because that’s considered torah sheball peh according to them.

    The litvishe are very maikil and will teach tons of meforshim on tanach, but will never teach mishnayos and gemara(except pirkei avos). They hold that anything used to understand torah she’biksav isn’t an issue.

    The vast majority of ehrliche women throughout history were completely uneducated in seforim. According to you, did they all indulge in goyishe things? Chas veshalom! A girl who grows up knowing what their purpose is and who is taught the dangers of goyishe culture will not get involved in such things, whether they’re chasidishe or litvishe.

    But some girls simply don’t keep what they’re taught. And if you want to start getting into anecdotal incidents…. those with glass houses shouldn’t throw stones. Have you seen what became accepted in crown heights in recent years? Are you aware of how many girls – and boys – who can rattle off sichos but are engaged in kol minei nivalah?

    A woman’s ruchnius isn’t from learning. It’s from tznius, chesed and davening. Learning Torah accomplishes everything for a man; it does very little for women. Perhaps it can be an element of avodad Hashem, but there’s a reason why it is not a chiyuv – and we know that גדול המצווה ועושה, one who does what he is obligated to do is bigger than one who does something they’re not obligated to do. It’s a basic chazal; the enthusiasm women might have over learning could be the same kind of yatzer hora that makes men more interested in chessed than learning – it’s a yatzer hora.

    #2263519
    ujm
    Participant

    All this is the greatest proof in support of the Halacha that prohibits teaching women.

    #2263534
    yankel berel
    Participant

    ?

    #2263531
    yankel berel
    Participant

    Yb
    “Or , Phrased in another way – If you, CS, would be put in a ‘time machine’ , transported to the 1990 – 1994 era , and would be commenting on these pages , would you ‘explain’ those hazal like the shitah of ‘then habad’ or like you do now ?”

    I have no idea [CS]
    ——
    You are not being honest . Although you promised honesty .
    You would defend the Habad line to the tee.
    Just like you are doing now .
    Without any regard for facts, reality and common sense.

    ==================================================================
    Just to make sure I have you right, you say the reason others didn’t see The Rebbe as a candidate for Moshiach (obviously among the ones who didn’t) had nothing to do with the alive or dead debate? So what was it then?
    [CS]
    ——
    They did not see the Rebbi of the habad hasidim as a candidate for M because ….

    1] for the last 2 thousand years yidden NEVER looked for ‘candidates’ . Full Stop.
    The few instances some looked and FELL for [bogus] candidates, it invariably resulted in DISASTER.
    This whole idea of ‘looking for candidates’ is UNHEARD OF in normative yahadut , and is a newfangled notion, introduced by habad in the last 60 years AS A TOOL for the tolerance / acceptance of “the one Asher habad hafets biyekaro”.
    This is CRYSTAL CLEAR to any unbiased observer.

    2] The Great Deception which habad attempted to use ,to make their leader palatable and tolerated as M by other Orthodox Jews .

    For many decades habad , encouraged milema’ala , steadfastly denied any notion of attempting to crown their leader as M .
    Anyone accusing Habad of the above was committing a blood libel , no less .
    This was [supposedly] a MALEVOLENT SHEKER , stemming from nothing more than hate and prejudice , from midot ra’ot , from a two hundred years old blind vendetta against the originators of hasidut .
    From people who [supposedly] wore tfillin pesulim , who are propped up with ga’ava and ego , and said ga’ava and ego were the sole reason why they were groundlessly accusing innocent ,selfless habadi’s of promotion of their Manhig .
    Those accusations were [supposedly] BASELESS and those accusations themselves [based on the fact they were baseless] were used as ironclad proof of the malevolence of the accusers , no matter their number or their status.
    .
    Everyone knows how that turned out .
    During the four years of Giluy Mashiach [1990 – 1994] , the Great Deception was uncovered in all its glory .
    The so called ‘blood libel’ turned out to be a case of Ezehu Haham HaRo’e Et HaNolad.
    The ‘malevolent sheker’ turned out to be grounded in fact and reality.
    The whole idea of ga’ava , ego , midot ra’ot driven false accusations , sprinkled with unsubtantiated tfillin psulim allegations , melted totally under the harsh glare of the sun consisting of the new reality of messianic drivel and frenzy ,clearly directed [again] milema’ala.
    .
    If all that is not enough , then what is ?
    .
    When the Mashiach Amiti will come ,we will not need gimmicks ,nor great deceptions, nor will we need glib answers or wholesale change of topic [as replacements for answers] , nor will we need hazakot al ta’amula shelo hozeret rekam .
    .
    We do not have to worry how it is going to work .
    It is not our business .
    HKBH bihvodo uve’atsmo , not melubash beguf , will make it work .
    He created the world , He gave the Torah , He looked and looks after the Yehudim in Galut .
    The same RBSH’O Who did all of the above , will effect the Ge’oula HA’AMITIT , without candidacies and without any of our own ‘tricks’ .
    Bechol Yom Achakeh

    LO !

    Lo , and not anyone else.

    This the position of yahadut immemorial . And it will remain so .
    Yishtabah Shemo.

    #2263769
    yankel berel
    Participant

    Contrast this with a woman who grows up in a very frum home and community, but wasn’t blessed to learn and see the deeper side of Torah, it’s not hard to understand why she may find her pleasure and down time in non Jewish movies, music, books etc even if she’s dressed tznius to the hilt, and the impact this has on her home…
    [CS]
    ————————
    Are all other posts by CS so divorced from reality as this one ?

    CS ought to offer an unequivocal apology to the many tens of thousands of sincere women who are “not blessed to learn and see the [so called] deeper side of Torah” but nevertheless do not find ‘their pleasure and down time in non Jewish movies’ .

    There are – probably- less women ‘blessed’ or influenced by the deeper side of torah [i.e. habad] who do not find their pleasure in non jewish movies , than women not ‘blessed’ by the deeper side of torah [i.e. non habad] who do not find their pleasure in non jewish movies .

    CS – and the other habad apologists on this thread – seem to live in an alternate universe ….
    .

    #2263784
    ARSo
    Participant

    (I thought I had posted something like this last week, but it hasn’t appeared. So either it was edited – I don’t know why – or I just messed it up. Here it is again.)

    In reply to sechel’s question as to who can be considered a gadol if the Lubavicher rebbe isn’t, coffee addict replied: Rav Shach.

    That’s not apples for apples. Because Rav Shach is no longer alive while the Lubavicher rebbe is! That’s why my list is better because it contains people who are alive ad me’ach v’esrim.

    #2263789
    ARSo
    Participant

    CS to yankel berel: “you say the reason others didn’t see The Rebbe as a candidate for Moshiach (obviously among the ones who didn’t) had nothing to do with the alive or dead debate? So what was it then?”

    It obviously had nothing to do with the dead-or-alive debate because at the time ALL Lubavichers said Mashiach has to be someone who is currently alive, which has been pointed out again and again.

    As to the reason the vast – virtually 100% – of the non-Lubavich chareidi world would not accept the LR as candidate for Mashiach, the answer is very simple: he did not fit any of the criteria, again, as I have pointed out again and again.

    One other point came to mind. The Rambam, which Lubavich quotes, says that Mashiach will be osek beTorah keDavid aviv. Any idea why davka like David? Why compare him to anyone, when the Rambam could simply have said that he has to be osek beTorah constantly, or the like? Well I can suggest an answer.

    The gemoro (Berachos 4a) tells us how unbelievably humble David was when it came to learning Torah, and how he was always willing and ready to admit that he was wrong. The LR was certainly nothing like that. He was always right and never stopped trying to convince others that his way was the only correct way. One illustrative example is his constant “nagging” other Rebbes and Roshei Yeshivos to institute the study of chassidus, even though that would have been a departure from their mesores.

    That, of course, is not the only time he displayed “stubborness” when contradicted with facts. One other example, which I have written about a number of times, is that it is ok according to simple pshat not to sleep in the sukka. Oh, I forgot also that washing for Shalosh Seudos is a kula al pi chassidus.

    #2263792
    ARSo
    Participant

    CS: “And to whoever was outraged that Chabad saved the day yet again: bH, we did in that case and many other cases. No reason to be intimidated if you have the same approach of helping any Jew. It’s not a contest.”

    I just love the way you make a claim – “bH we did” – and the only question is whether we are intimidated by Lubavich or not. You did not save the day, and you never have! This reminds me of the countless times I have heard Lubavichers argue, “We all agree that the Lubavicher rebbe is the greatest tzaddik of our time, therefore something-or-other…” They just move the playing field as we don’t agree!

    Btw do you remember (obviously, you can’t, but you can ask) when the LR had a “vote” at a farbrengen resulting in a psak that land not be returned to the Arabs? The point was that since לא-ל גומר עלי, min Hashomayim that psak would be followed, and land would not be returned. What happened to that prediction, or is that also to be swept under the already bulging carpet. (Please don’t start replying how we see it was a mistake to return land. That is not the point I am making here at all.)

    #2263793
    ARSo
    Participant

    CS in reply to my question as to how the LR could claim that his father-in-law was Mashiach when his father-in-law wasn’t dor shevi’i, and Mashiach has to be from dor Shevi’i: “I don’t see where you got that. What I meant was that if Nesius would’ve ended with the Frierdiker Rebbe, there would have been no dor shvii as the dor goes by the Rebbe. Since we needed another Rebbe, that equals dor shvii”

    Sounds like circular reasoning to me. The Rayatz could have been Mashiach, but since he wasn’t we need dor shevi’i to be Mashiach, and that just happens to be the LR who is the one who revealed the need for dor shevi’i.

    Well done! Once again you have shown how we have no option but to declare the LR as Mashiach because he said so!

    #2263796
    ARSo
    Participant

    CS: “All my peers who strive to be “Chassidish” (within Lubavitch), guard their homes from any non Jewish influence. There is no TV, non Jewish books (at least for entertainment purposes), and of course would never watch movies under any circumstances.

    Contrast this with a woman who grows up in a very frum home and community, but wasn’t blessed to learn and see the deeper side of Torah, it’s not hard to understand why she may find her pleasure and down time in non Jewish movies, music, books etc even if she’s dressed tznius to the hilt, and the impact this has on her home…”

    And from the mods: “disclaimer: mamash motzei shem rah”

    If at all possible, it’s even worse that motzi shem ra. It’s absolute total garbage! (Yes, I know that that makes it motzi shem ra, but it’s so off the planet that there must be an even better term for it.)

    Why not contrast you and your peers with neshei chayil who do not learn and Torah sheb’al peh, and who put their efforts into having a Torah home and bringing up yirei Shomayim?

    We all know – it has been discussed and never denied – that the tznius and mixing of genders in Crown Heights is far worse than in any other chareidi enclave. We all know that the number of children allowed unfettered use of internet and smartphones is far greater in Crown Heights that in any other chareidi enclave. Women putting the stress on learning gemoro and chassidus instead of looking after their children’s Yiddishkeit, is worse than counterproductive!

    Now if you are part of the minority who doesn’t allow the above in your home, well done (!), and Hashem should help you continue in your efforts. But we are not having a personal debate about you versus us. It is about what goes on in Lubavich versus the proper chareidi world.

    #2263854
    ☕️coffee addict
    Participant

    Arso,

    I thought Lubavitch now holds that moshiach can come from the dead which is why I said Rav Shach

    #2263887
    sechel83
    Participant

    arso “And I have a question. If the Lubavicher rebbe was atzmus melubash beguf, and thus all-powerful, why wasn’t he able to avoid having a stroke, and avoid dying?”
    great question so instead of the possibility of whoever told you that chabad said this misquoted something, you ask chabad why…?
    see igeres hakodesh (in tanya) chapter 25. also likutai amarim perek 2

    In reply to sechel’s question as to who can be considered a gadol if the Lubavicher rebbe isn’t, coffee addict replied: Rav Shach.
    rav shach was a gadol i agree he gave many shiurim and has around 10-15 seforim printed of his torah on talmud bavli and specificly the yeshiva mesechtos. the rebbe has about 200 sefrim on bavli yerushalmi, kabalah zohar and everything else so thats my point, if the rebbe isint than who is
    btw how many people can tell you a torah of rav shach?

    #2263907
    DaMoshe
    Participant

    Sechel, the number of people who can quote the teachings of someone doesn’t indicate greatness. Far more people can quote teachings of Jesus – does that indicate greatness?

    #2263906
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    How many people can quote a line from rav ashi off the top of their heads?

    #2263912

    > learning gemoro and chassidus instead of looking after their children’s Yiddishkeit

    We somehow got used to the word learning to signify “occupation” or a “chore” … instead of simply “learning”. If a lady shows interest in learning more in depth of mitzvos – that is what gemora is in the wider meaning – this should surely enhance her ability to look after her family yiddishkeit. It does not mean that she has to have a regular seder at the kollel, behind the mehitza or not.

    #2263933
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    AAQ, it seems that the type of learning you mention is agreed by all here to be fine. It is pretty obvious from the fact that Chazal specify teaching your daughter, that they weren’t trying to outlaw anyone from picking up a Sefer, בהצנע לכת.

    There is the incident with Rebbe Eliezer, but that isn’t quoted as a broad rule, nor is it clear what exactly he meant.

    The issue in question is about standardizing such learning.

    #2263938
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    I’d like to point out that if we go based on the reason the gemara(in bavli) gives, which is that women are מוציא דברי תורה לדברי הבאי, that it is our halachik responsibility to not do things which lead to bizayon hatorah. If a woman learns on her own – even according to those who allow it in din, is she not likewise responsible to not do something which will lead to bizayon hatorah? If she indeed is an exceptional woman, refined in mind and middos, like bruriah, then she, knowing herself and her capabilities, will not make Torah into divrei havai.

    But if a woman is not on that level and she does so, maybe the men aren’t obligated to stop her, as their obligation would be just not to teach them and cause it by their actions, but the bizayon hatorah that the woman creates when she learns and turns Torah into divrei havai is fully, squarely on her shoulders. She has violated a grave sin in her study, not a mitzvah. And that’s the reason why the rambam says that a woman only has schar by torah she’biksav, and has no schar by torah shebaal peh, because he is referring to the vast majority of women who are incapable of such study and will perforce make divrei Torah into divrei havai.

    That also leads us to another question – if most women were incapable of gemara study in the times of chazal, when people were purer and holier, to the point where they would make it divrei havai…. today’s women are any better? We’ve only dropped in our madregos since then.

    And should it enter your mind to say that “todays women are smarter!” – that’s a prime example of divrei havai right there.

    #2263956
    yankel berel
    Participant

    Hello ?

    #2263967
    ARSo
    Participant

    coffee addict: “I thought Lubavitch now holds that moshiach can come from the dead which is why I said Rav Shach”

    Sorry, you clearly don’t understand official Lubavich policy. Please allow me to enlighten you.

    1. Either the LR is alive, and Mashiach must be someone who is alive, hence the LR is Mashiach.

    2. Alternatively, if the LR is not alive, then Mashiach must be him regardless.

    There is no room for anyone else who has died to be Mashiach. In fact, there is no room for anyone else to be Mashiach, period.

    And this is all based on clear non-existents sources.

    #2263969
    ARSo
    Participant

    sechel: “rav shach was a gadol i agree he gave many shiurim and has around 10-15 seforim printed of his torah on talmud bavli and specificly the yeshiva mesechtos. the rebbe has about 200 sefrim on bavli yerushalmi, kabalah zohar and everything else so thats my point, if the rebbe isint than who is”

    You must be extremely young if you consider yourself a Lubavicher yet you agree that Rav Shach was a gadol. Even letting that thought flit through your mind was a huge no-no a decade or two ago.

    And in regards to numbers of seforim printed:
    1. The number of seforim means nothing at all.
    2. The 200 seforim you claim that the LR has published (In the past you wrote that he has written, but I think possibly the only one he actually wrote himself was Hayom Yom. I may be wrong, but not that far off.) are not individual seforim. The vast majority of them are adaptations of other seforim of his. Correct me if I’m wrong.

    #2263970
    ARSo
    Participant

    Avirah: “If she indeed is an exceptional woman, refined in mind and middos, like bruriah, then she, knowing herself and her capabilities, will not make Torah into divrei havai.”

    Is a woman to decide on her own that she will not turn Torah into divrei havai c”v? How can she decide that before she has learnt Torah and knows what the dangers are?

    I would say the same thing about men (I’m feeling very woke at the moment) were it not for the fact that all Jewish men (I’m not quite feeling woke enough to say “all Jews who identify as men”.) are commanded to study Torah at all times. So that absolves them from judging themselves prior to learning Torah.

    #2264044
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Arso – precisely. I did not add that caveat about men because i didn’t want to distract from the thrust of the point, but yes, men are anusim mipnei hadin, forced by din to learn, whether or not they’re going to make divrei havai.

    #2264046
    HaLeiVi
    Participant

    ARSo, that’s true. In fact, what people don’t realize is that the Rambam writes to be careful to whom you teach. People who won’t learn seriously can and do utilize the little they learn the wrong way.

    #2264047
    AviraDeArah
    Participant

    Regarding how a woman can trust herself; we’re talking about women who grew up and/or lived with talmidei chachamim, whether it’s their fathers, brothers, or husbands. They pick up things in learning. But I don’t think any woman alive today, save maybe for some yerushalmis or people in kiryas yoel, can say that they’re clean of secular influences to the point where they can reasonably say that they won’t make such errors…and even so, it was only exceptional women bzman chazal…i don’t think anyone today would be considered on that level.

    #2264149
    ARSo
    Participant

    And there’s always the problem that אדם קרוב אצל עצמו. How can any woman (again, men too, but they have a mitzva to learn regardless) judge herself favorably and say that she will learn and understand correctly, when she is noga’as bedavar?

    #2264169
    CS
    Participant

    Just saying, I’m appreciating disclaimers generally, so the mods can clarify where the balance is, but again balance is key. I see my post was disclaimed as motzei Shem ra- at least it wasn’t edited in addition. To the best of my knowledge, motzei Shem ra means calling out others, whether by individual or community, falsely.

    If you Reread my post, you’ll see I did none of the above. I contrasted what I gained from personal, internalized hashkofa from Torah shebaal peh, with what could theoretically, logically happen with someone who doesn’t. I didn’t call out individuals or communities by name, and so the falsehood factor doesn’t apply either.

    try rereading your post

    If this is so mamash motzei shem ra, as I may be ignorant, please do list where I can look up the Halachic source that teaches what I did wrong.

    #2264171
    CS
    Participant

    “CS, chabad are the ones who made a contest out of yiddishkeit. Do you ever use the phrase “kiddush Lubavitch”?”

    I could say the same thing to you. Can you list the top ten current leaders amongst the sefardim? The Rabbonim/ mashpiim in Ger? Bobov? Etc?

    It does seem that the bigger a group gets, the harder it is to know everyone within the community/ group, and we know “outsiders” even less.

    I think the term kiddush lubavitch is a defensive term which you could ask yourself why it needs to exist… Not hard to understand when you see how lubavitch is maligned by some…

    In any case, Chassidus teaches that all of Klal Yisrael are one body, with its leaders being the brain Neshamos, etc.

    Every part of Klal Yisrael is important to the whole. Seeing it in such a light, a contest is ridiculous.

    The Rebbe once said, if Satmar wouldn’t be so anti Zionist, we would need to be more…

    Similarly, the yishuvniks risk their lives for yishuv haaretz and thereby protect so many Jews.

    Satmar are renowned for their community wide Chessed/ bikur cholim etc.

    The Litvish highlight the supremacy of Torah learning

    And the list goes on and on…

    #2264172
    CS
    Participant

    Avira

    ““Nesius” is a term created יש מאין. The last time there was a Nasi was in the early amoraim.”

    Incorrect. It’s in sefarim more recent than that. (Arso has looked into it- ask him).

    Yes lubavitch is unique in applying it to their Rebbeim. I guess as descendants of Beis Dovid, we are unique. And the term connotes responsibility for all Jews, not just your community.

    And yes we’re proud of it and it wouldn’t bother us if others had the same outlook- it would be great if every community looked out for the entire Klal Yisrael.

    #2264174
    CS
    Participant

    Avira

    “But some girls simply don’t keep what they’re taught.”

    This is true.

    “And if you want to start getting into anecdotal incidents…. those with glass houses shouldn’t throw stones. Have you seen what became accepted in crown heights in recent years? Are you aware of how many girls – and boys – who can rattle off sichos but are engaged in kol minei nivalah?”

    Coming from lubavitch, The ones who consistently are into learning and can rattle off the sichos in depth, are not generally the ones involved with that kind of stuff…

    #2264175
    CS
    Participant

    Avira,

    “A woman’s ruchnius isn’t from learning. It’s from tznius, chesed and davening. Learning Torah accomplishes everything for a man; it does very little for women. Perhaps it can be an element of avodad Hashem, but there’s a reason why it is not a chiyuv – and we know that גדול המצווה ועושה, one who does what he is obligated to do is bigger than one who does something they’re not obligated to do. It’s a basic chazal; the enthusiasm women might have over learning could be the same kind of yatzer hora that makes men more interested in chessed than learning – it’s a yatzer hora.”

    So I can agree with you that for me at least, learning Gemara is good as far as research, but doesn’t do as much for me in Avodas Hashem- I prefer practical Halacha.

    But, and here’s the big but, at least 2 of the שש מצות תמידיות are knowing, fearing and loving Hashem. You can’t fulfill these mitzvos adequately without learning about Hashem. Without learning you will not have these emotions. So anything related is more than relevant to women, in fact it’s a yesod for Avodas Hashem.

    And I’m lucky enough to have Chassidus which shines a light on all the other Torah I have learned. And that’s part of why (in addition to the Baal Shem Tovs mandate from Moshiach) we are so passionate to share with others. If we were so elitist, we’d keep it all to ourselves.

    #2264190
    CS
    Participant

    Yb

    “1] for the last 2 thousand years yidden NEVER looked for ‘candidates’ . Full Stop.
    The few instances some looked and FELL for [bogus] candidates, it invariably resulted in DISASTER.
    This whole idea of ‘looking for candidates’ is UNHEARD OF in normative yahadut , and is a newfangled notion, introduced by habad in the last 60 years AS A TOOL for the tolerance / acceptance of “the one Asher habad hafets biyekaro”.
    This is CRYSTAL CLEAR to any unbiased observer.”

    This is an interesting point that it never came up in history. I know there was speculation about the third Lubavitcher Rebbe as well (same name also), but I’d like to look into this point more to see if it’s accurate. I don’t think Moshiach candidacy is necessarily unique to lubavitch Chassidus- I could be wrong- I don’t remember other names outright.

    The premise I’ve always heard is that if the Rambam put the criteria for the Moshiach candidate in a Halacha sefer, then it’s meant for us to act on it.

    As an aside, at the end of the day it’s how you view The Rebbes integrity as a person. If indeed he was a tzadik every observable moment, taught Torah etc, and led thousands back towards Hashem etc etc etc, then the logical thing at least to me, is to believe that when he did say these atypical statements, it was not for self promoting purposes (which anyone who came to The Rebbe felt that he highlighted their potential- not the opposite), rather this was his shlichus, and therefore his mandate to share.

    Now, someone unfamiliar with The Rebbe may hear the Moshiach stuff and think in the opposite direction, especially if encouraged by their personal Torah leader. But let’s not kid ourselves that there is a one and only litvish leader, there were many with different extremes on how they related to the Rebbe. And the one often quoted did not only view the Rebbe negatively but started controversy with other Torah leaders too- let’s not pretend that this is something limited to the Rebbes personal integrity.

    At the end of the day, lubavitch knows the Rebbe most intimately, and we make this judgment call of character to accept the Rebbe as our Rebbe, and therefore listen to what he says. It’s really that simple. A liar or imposter and a authentic Torah leader are worlds apart in character and teaching etc. And the thousands who are Lubavitcher Chassidim attest to the Rebbes integrity by their choice to be lubavitch.

    #2264191
    CS
    Participant

    Yk

    “CS ought to offer an unequivocal apology to the many tens of thousands of sincere women who are “not blessed to learn and see the [so called] deeper side of Torah” but nevertheless do not find ‘their pleasure and down time in non Jewish movies’ .”

    Is it difficult to understand the words “Why she MAY”?

    #2264192
    CS
    Participant

    Arso

    “he did not fit any of the criteria, again, as I have pointed out again and again.”

    Repeating it doesn’t make it a fact. We’ve personally gone through on this thread, yichus (I have the pages), yochuf (sources brought that it could be by influence / speech) and Melech (Rambams example).

    Would you like to list more that don’t fit?

    #2264193
    CS
    Participant

    Arso

    “The LR was certainly nothing like that. He was always right and never stopped trying to convince others that his way was the only correct way. One illustrative example is his constant “nagging” other Rebbes and Roshei Yeshivos to institute the study of chassidus, even though that would have been a departure from their mesores.”

    Complete misrepresentation. How about when the Rebbe personally checked up on the young Iranians saved from Iran (not Lubavitchers) and checked that they would have rice on Pesach even though it’s not our Minhag because it’s theirs?

    The Zirkind’s and other families who became lubavitch from chasseedish were encouraged to keep their levush.

    And of course, if he was so vain cvs , why would he care for every Jew? A vain person has enough of a challenge dealing with his own community.

    #2264194
    CS
    Participant

    Arso,

    “Btw do you remember (obviously, you can’t, but you can ask) when the LR had a “vote” at a farbrengen resulting in a psak that land not be returned to the Arabs? The point was that since לא-ל גומר עלי, min Hashomayim that psak would be followed, and land would not be returned. What happened to that prediction, or is that also to be swept under the already bulging carpet. (Please don’t start replying how we see it was a mistake to return land. That is not the point I am making here at all.)”

    Unsurprisingly, I didn’t hear of it. There is many many sichos I have yet to learn. Would you know which sicha this is printed in? Or the date?

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