January 27, 2011 11:06 am at 11:06 am #594548
ok this is what im wondering.
is curly hair nice for a girl to wear on a date?
i feel like in the frum world everyone is wearing straight?
(as hair not in shaitel)
ok men out there- is curly weird? if you go out with a girl do you get suprised when she shows up in curly hair?
honest answers only!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!January 27, 2011 1:23 pm at 1:23 pm #734670doodle jumpParticipant
I wish girls would feel more confident with their appearance. obviously any style that is over the top, way too long or wild looking is wrong, but I don’t understand why everybody has to have straight hair. You are who you are. Be the best that you can be.
If you love how you look with curly hair, go for it.January 27, 2011 1:38 pm at 1:38 pm #734671anonymrsParticipant
what exactly is wrong with curly hair? my hair is curly and i love it!! it was always curly on dates, and i managed to get married anyway….January 27, 2011 2:01 pm at 2:01 pm #734672truth be toldMember
I don’t think it would make a differenceJanuary 27, 2011 2:20 pm at 2:20 pm #734673apushatayidParticipant
As long as you dont look like Curly Neal.January 27, 2011 2:36 pm at 2:36 pm #734674chayav inish livisumayParticipant
its a matter of self confidence. but if your hair is so curly that ist like seel wool you should straighten itJanuary 27, 2011 3:41 pm at 3:41 pm #734675oomisParticipant
Oh brother – do we not have enough problems? If you have pretty hair that happens to be curly, LUCKY GIRL. If it is kinky or frizzy, maybe some guys do not like that look, and you can blow your hair out straighter. Let’s focus on real issues, not superficial ones. And whatever the style, fashion comes and goes. Shaitels can be bought in virtually style you want. So don’t worry too much about your hair, except to keep it neat, clean, and attractive in whatever style you wear.January 27, 2011 3:55 pm at 3:55 pm #734676BEST IMAParticipant
Whats wrong with curly hair?? Girls change themselves so much nowadays the guys dont even know what theyre marrying. They wake up one morning and she didnt have time to blow her hair they have the shock of their lives. Like oomis said keep it neat and clean. Its a very big turnoff when a girls hair smells not clean.January 27, 2011 4:12 pm at 4:12 pm #734677DrinkingoutofCupsMember
As a guy, I’ll be pleasantly surprised to meet a girl who leaves her hair curly. Almost as happy as if she wasn’t wearing black.January 27, 2011 4:16 pm at 4:16 pm #734678Derech HaMelechMember
I have curly hair and I got married. Well its more wavy-ish to be honest but still.January 27, 2011 4:22 pm at 4:22 pm #734679tikvuchkaMember
when i was single, a couple of months ago, I used to wear my hair curly and just make my bangs straight. I love this look.January 27, 2011 4:30 pm at 4:30 pm #734680mewhoParticipant
whats the big deal over curly or straight. just make sure it is clean and neat!January 27, 2011 4:37 pm at 4:37 pm #734681cutie pieMember
I have curly hair, but it’s kind of frizzy too. So I blow it, and it comes out really nice, with height and style, not just straight. 🙂January 27, 2011 5:20 pm at 5:20 pm #734682TheGoqParticipant
apy LOL! curly neal indeedJanuary 27, 2011 5:31 pm at 5:31 pm #734683
every one got me wrong!!! i did not say say that i am self-concious. i was just curious…. relaxJanuary 27, 2011 6:50 pm at 6:50 pm #734684ItcheSrulikMember
Tikvuchka: Mazal Tov!
My only comment is that I went out with a girl with curly hair on Monday.January 27, 2011 6:53 pm at 6:53 pm #734685Shticky GuyParticipant
Derech HaMelech are you male or female?January 27, 2011 7:11 pm at 7:11 pm #734686
My only question is, are you going out with her again? 😉January 27, 2011 7:16 pm at 7:16 pm #734687ItcheSrulikMember
No comment.January 27, 2011 7:17 pm at 7:17 pm #734688
Girls: Stick w the straight hair.January 27, 2011 7:17 pm at 7:17 pm #734689popa_bar_abbaParticipant
Why not? Was she fat?January 27, 2011 7:18 pm at 7:18 pm #734690
well i doubt you going out with her again or not depends on her hair. so…January 27, 2011 9:16 pm at 9:16 pm #734691
the entire frum world is wearin strait cuz we live in an extremely cookie cutter society..(which is a lil sad.) straight hair only..wearing only black is the only way to look neat and classy.. (personally-so creepy and depressing and unfeminine!) Girls! a little personality!! twiggy- u r an individual person!!! u want the guy to know YOU,and hes gonna hafta live with YOU and YOUR hair for the rest of ur lives.. so who why duz it matter what the rest of the world looks like?! (i know.. it doesnt work that way in shidduchim..) anyways I would wear my hair strait mostly cuz its usually dressier and curly others..January 27, 2011 9:25 pm at 9:25 pm #734692
“wearing only black is the only way to look neat and classy”
…as opposed to Fuchsia?January 27, 2011 9:36 pm at 9:36 pm #734693pet peeveMember
sac i know ur kidding but there has to be something in between black and fuchsia 😉January 27, 2011 9:46 pm at 9:46 pm #734694
what i wonder is there r so many mothers who dress up ther little angels in the most stunning expensive clothes that r COMLETELY BLACK!! down to ther shoes and bows in ther hair.. duz anyone else find that disturbing??January 27, 2011 9:56 pm at 9:56 pm #734695
Maybe they are chubby, and dont want to risk being rejected by Popa’s kid.January 27, 2011 10:24 pm at 10:24 pm #734696popcornMember
Talking about only wearing black….my sister attended a wedding last year March and decided that although it’s cold outside, it was technically spring and chose to wear a nice sage green dress…was she surprised to realize that she was THE ONLY ONE to be wearing a different color dress other than black!…she walked into a sea of black outfits. The ironic thing is that after each individual who is wearing black spent hours finding the perfect outfit with the little details…buttons, lace, flowers, ruffles….when you are all dressed in black, no one can see how special your outfit is bec. everyone looks the same. The Torah is sprinkled with many colors, Copper for the mishkan, Tchailes
for Tzitzis, different color stones for the Choshen Mishpat..etc.
No one is saying you should wear Glowing Orange, Bubble gum pink
or Lime Green. There are beautiful colors that are Basheiden
and compliment the persons skin tone and breathes a breath of fresh air to Tznius clothing other than the color Black.January 27, 2011 10:51 pm at 10:51 pm #734697
as of black i love that color, as of curly, i won’t want my son “dating” a girl with curly hair (as if it depends on me!) but (and thats a big but) it’s all up to what the one above chose for me and all of us. good luck to all.January 27, 2011 10:57 pm at 10:57 pm #734698Derech HaMelechMember
Shticky: I’m a guy. But I’m just saying…January 27, 2011 11:20 pm at 11:20 pm #734699doodle jumpParticipant
s2021: Agree with you. When did we loose our identity? I understand that RED is out of the question, but there are so many other beautiful colors to choose from. Black is o.k. every once in a while, but a lack of color is depressing. We are trying to peg everyone into a mold. It is not meant to be that way. It comes to a point that when you finally decide that enough is enough and you put another color on, the attention gets to be on you. Same thing with hair. Why would you want to look like every body else? Don’t be afraid to show the REAL you. There is only one YOU. Embrace yourself, looks, kochos, talents and all.January 27, 2011 11:26 pm at 11:26 pm #734700pet peeveMember
yeah but…….black is slimming……..
(just had to throw that in there)January 28, 2011 12:02 am at 12:02 am #734701
I would say black makes up 95% of my wardrobe… but hey, I like black! I wear dark nail polish and dark eye liner/eye shadow. But thats just me.January 28, 2011 12:24 am at 12:24 am #734702
dzooger- WHAT??????? u wouldnt want ur son dating a girl with curly hair???????? PLEEEEASE explain why that is???!!!!January 28, 2011 12:27 am at 12:27 am #734703
dz and sac- kindly enlighten me- what is it about the color black that u luv?January 28, 2011 12:43 am at 12:43 am #734704
I think it’s time we get a makeup thread rolling. I’m looking for a new eyeliner.January 28, 2011 2:09 am at 2:09 am #734705
Someone will probably say it is inappropriate and shut it down…
Right now I’m using Stila Smudge Pots in Jet Black for gel eye liner and for liquid I use Stila Stay All Day in Jet Black (its liquid but comes in a marker)January 28, 2011 2:19 am at 2:19 am #734706always hereParticipant
Sac & dunno– sounds like you two should become facebook friends! j/k 😉January 28, 2011 3:30 am at 3:30 am #734707
dzooger- WHAT??????? u wouldnt want ur son dating a girl with curly hair???????? PLEEEEASE explain why that is???!!!!
just a joke. ha ha but what i meant is yes it might look a little funny, just go get a straightning until the dates over ,and then until you get married…… curlys out there dont take this personal pleaeeeese. thanks in advance. and by the way enjoy your hair while you have it.January 28, 2011 3:34 am at 3:34 am #734708
dz and sac- kindly enlighten me- what is it about the color black that u luv?
pet peeve said it looks slimming….. i also think so……January 28, 2011 6:35 am at 6:35 am #734709nfgo3Member
Curly hair is better than Larry hair and way better than Moe hair, unless you’re making a suit.January 28, 2011 6:40 am at 6:40 am #734710
Thanks. I wanted to try gel next.
You’re right! Now let’s see if the Mods will agree 🙂January 28, 2011 7:54 am at 7:54 am #734711mischiefmakerMember
Personally, I don’t like the natural moosed curls when there consistent. If its more like gentle curls and not frizzy, it actually should look really good. Straight I find is easier based on my hair (basically straight). I have to work to make curls so its a different story.January 28, 2011 8:51 am at 8:51 am #734712yossi z.Member
Can we differentiate between curly hair and hair with curls? Because I like hair with curls (or waves, etc) but when I hear curly hair I get this image of not so long, curly hair sticking out in all directions (this is hereditary in my family but once the hair grows longer it hangs down quite nicely-boy you should have seen me before my upsherin!)January 28, 2011 8:52 am at 8:52 am #734713
yeah same here. moosed here looks weird.January 28, 2011 9:04 am at 9:04 am #734714yossi z.Member
Sorry, like is the wrong term, I prefer hair with curls etcJanuary 28, 2011 2:39 pm at 2:39 pm #734715
Just a tip, get black eye shadow and dab it on top of the gel when you are finished applying it, so that it doesnt get all over the place.January 28, 2011 2:55 pm at 2:55 pm #734716
I’ll try it – I actually use just black (actually dark brownish) eye shadow now. It give a softer look.January 28, 2011 3:27 pm at 3:27 pm #734717
Just eyeshadow and no eyeliner?January 28, 2011 3:43 pm at 3:43 pm #734718
Yup. Eye shadow as eye liner. Recommended to me by the MAC person lol.
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