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  • #594548
    twiggy
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    ok this is what im wondering.

    is curly hair nice for a girl to wear on a date?

    i feel like in the frum world everyone is wearing straight?

    (as hair not in shaitel)

    ok men out there- is curly weird? if you go out with a girl do you get suprised when she shows up in curly hair?

    honest answers only!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    #734670
    doodle jump
    Participant

    I wish girls would feel more confident with their appearance. obviously any style that is over the top, way too long or wild looking is wrong, but I don’t understand why everybody has to have straight hair. You are who you are. Be the best that you can be.

    If you love how you look with curly hair, go for it.

    #734671
    anonymrs
    Participant

    what exactly is wrong with curly hair? my hair is curly and i love it!! it was always curly on dates, and i managed to get married anyway….

    #734672

    I don’t think it would make a difference

    #734673
    apushatayid
    Participant

    As long as you dont look like Curly Neal.

    #734674

    its a matter of self confidence. but if your hair is so curly that ist like seel wool you should straighten it

    #734675
    oomis
    Participant

    Oh brother – do we not have enough problems? If you have pretty hair that happens to be curly, LUCKY GIRL. If it is kinky or frizzy, maybe some guys do not like that look, and you can blow your hair out straighter. Let’s focus on real issues, not superficial ones. And whatever the style, fashion comes and goes. Shaitels can be bought in virtually style you want. So don’t worry too much about your hair, except to keep it neat, clean, and attractive in whatever style you wear.

    #734676
    BEST IMA
    Participant

    Whats wrong with curly hair?? Girls change themselves so much nowadays the guys dont even know what theyre marrying. They wake up one morning and she didnt have time to blow her hair they have the shock of their lives. Like oomis said keep it neat and clean. Its a very big turnoff when a girls hair smells not clean.

    #734677

    As a guy, I’ll be pleasantly surprised to meet a girl who leaves her hair curly. Almost as happy as if she wasn’t wearing black.

    #734678

    I have curly hair and I got married. Well its more wavy-ish to be honest but still.

    #734679
    tikvuchka
    Member

    when i was single, a couple of months ago, I used to wear my hair curly and just make my bangs straight. I love this look.

    #734680
    mewho
    Participant

    whats the big deal over curly or straight. just make sure it is clean and neat!

    #734681
    cutie pie
    Member

    I have curly hair, but it’s kind of frizzy too. So I blow it, and it comes out really nice, with height and style, not just straight. 🙂

    #734682
    TheGoq
    Participant

    apy LOL! curly neal indeed

    #734683
    twiggy
    Member

    every one got me wrong!!! i did not say say that i am self-concious. i was just curious…. relax

    #734684
    ItcheSrulik
    Member

    Tikvuchka: Mazal Tov!

    My only comment is that I went out with a girl with curly hair on Monday.

    #734685
    Shticky Guy
    Participant

    Derech HaMelech are you male or female?

    #734686
    Sacrilege
    Member

    ItcheSrulik

    My only question is, are you going out with her again? 😉

    #734687
    ItcheSrulik
    Member

    No comment.

    #734688
    Sacrilege
    Member

    Girls: Stick w the straight hair.

    #734689
    popa_bar_abba
    Participant

    Itche:

    Why not? Was she fat?

    #734690
    twiggy
    Member

    well i doubt you going out with her again or not depends on her hair. so…

    #734691
    s2021
    Member

    the entire frum world is wearin strait cuz we live in an extremely cookie cutter society..(which is a lil sad.) straight hair only..wearing only black is the only way to look neat and classy.. (personally-so creepy and depressing and unfeminine!) Girls! a little personality!! twiggy- u r an individual person!!! u want the guy to know YOU,and hes gonna hafta live with YOU and YOUR hair for the rest of ur lives.. so who why duz it matter what the rest of the world looks like?! (i know.. it doesnt work that way in shidduchim..) anyways I would wear my hair strait mostly cuz its usually dressier and curly others..

    #734692
    Sacrilege
    Member

    “wearing only black is the only way to look neat and classy”

    …as opposed to Fuchsia?

    #734693
    pet peeve
    Member

    sac i know ur kidding but there has to be something in between black and fuchsia 😉

    #734694
    s2021
    Member

    what i wonder is there r so many mothers who dress up ther little angels in the most stunning expensive clothes that r COMLETELY BLACK!! down to ther shoes and bows in ther hair.. duz anyone else find that disturbing??

    #734695
    Sacrilege
    Member

    Maybe they are chubby, and dont want to risk being rejected by Popa’s kid.

    #734696
    popcorn
    Member

    Talking about only wearing black….my sister attended a wedding last year March and decided that although it’s cold outside, it was technically spring and chose to wear a nice sage green dress…was she surprised to realize that she was THE ONLY ONE to be wearing a different color dress other than black!…she walked into a sea of black outfits. The ironic thing is that after each individual who is wearing black spent hours finding the perfect outfit with the little details…buttons, lace, flowers, ruffles….when you are all dressed in black, no one can see how special your outfit is bec. everyone looks the same. The Torah is sprinkled with many colors, Copper for the mishkan, Tchailes

    for Tzitzis, different color stones for the Choshen Mishpat..etc.

    No one is saying you should wear Glowing Orange, Bubble gum pink

    or Lime Green. There are beautiful colors that are Basheiden

    and compliment the persons skin tone and breathes a breath of fresh air to Tznius clothing other than the color Black.

    #734697
    deiyezooger
    Member

    as of black i love that color, as of curly, i won’t want my son “dating” a girl with curly hair (as if it depends on me!) but (and thats a big but) it’s all up to what the one above chose for me and all of us. good luck to all.

    #734698

    Shticky: I’m a guy. But I’m just saying…

    #734699
    doodle jump
    Participant

    s2021: Agree with you. When did we loose our identity? I understand that RED is out of the question, but there are so many other beautiful colors to choose from. Black is o.k. every once in a while, but a lack of color is depressing. We are trying to peg everyone into a mold. It is not meant to be that way. It comes to a point that when you finally decide that enough is enough and you put another color on, the attention gets to be on you. Same thing with hair. Why would you want to look like every body else? Don’t be afraid to show the REAL you. There is only one YOU. Embrace yourself, looks, kochos, talents and all.

    #734700
    pet peeve
    Member

    yeah but…….black is slimming……..

    (just had to throw that in there)

    #734701
    Sacrilege
    Member

    I would say black makes up 95% of my wardrobe… but hey, I like black! I wear dark nail polish and dark eye liner/eye shadow. But thats just me.

    #734702
    s2021
    Member

    dzooger- WHAT??????? u wouldnt want ur son dating a girl with curly hair???????? PLEEEEASE explain why that is???!!!!

    #734703
    s2021
    Member

    dz and sac- kindly enlighten me- what is it about the color black that u luv?

    #734704
    dunno
    Member

    Sac

    I think it’s time we get a makeup thread rolling. I’m looking for a new eyeliner.

    #734705
    Sacrilege
    Member

    Someone will probably say it is inappropriate and shut it down…

    Right now I’m using Stila Smudge Pots in Jet Black for gel eye liner and for liquid I use Stila Stay All Day in Jet Black (its liquid but comes in a marker)

    #734706
    always here
    Participant

    Sac & dunno– sounds like you two should become facebook friends! j/k 😉

    #734707
    deiyezooger
    Member

    dzooger- WHAT??????? u wouldnt want ur son dating a girl with curly hair???????? PLEEEEASE explain why that is???!!!!

    just a joke. ha ha but what i meant is yes it might look a little funny, just go get a straightning until the dates over ,and then until you get married…… curlys out there dont take this personal pleaeeeese. thanks in advance. and by the way enjoy your hair while you have it.

    #734708
    deiyezooger
    Member

    dz and sac- kindly enlighten me- what is it about the color black that u luv?

    pet peeve said it looks slimming….. i also think so……

    #734709
    nfgo3
    Member

    Curly hair is better than Larry hair and way better than Moe hair, unless you’re making a suit.

    #734710
    dunno
    Member

    Sac

    Thanks. I wanted to try gel next.

    always here

    You’re right! Now let’s see if the Mods will agree 🙂

    #734711

    Personally, I don’t like the natural moosed curls when there consistent. If its more like gentle curls and not frizzy, it actually should look really good. Straight I find is easier based on my hair (basically straight). I have to work to make curls so its a different story.

    #734712
    yossi z.
    Member

    Can we differentiate between curly hair and hair with curls? Because I like hair with curls (or waves, etc) but when I hear curly hair I get this image of not so long, curly hair sticking out in all directions (this is hereditary in my family but once the hair grows longer it hangs down quite nicely-boy you should have seen me before my upsherin!)

    #734713
    twiggy
    Member

    yeah same here. moosed here looks weird.

    #734714
    yossi z.
    Member

    Sorry, like is the wrong term, I prefer hair with curls etc

    #734715
    Sacrilege
    Member

    dunno

    Just a tip, get black eye shadow and dab it on top of the gel when you are finished applying it, so that it doesnt get all over the place.

    #734716
    dunno
    Member

    Sac

    I’ll try it – I actually use just black (actually dark brownish) eye shadow now. It give a softer look.

    #734717
    Sacrilege
    Member

    Just eyeshadow and no eyeliner?

    #734718
    dunno
    Member

    Yup. Eye shadow as eye liner. Recommended to me by the MAC person lol.

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